Sheikh Al subeiti Ameli instructions (125)
If it is necessary to quarrel and argue with people, let it be gentle and full of love
Avoid hostility, severity and cruelty
Since everything that comes out of you is inherited for the future generations.
So look at what you inherit to other people from your followers; especially with brothers, wombs and relatives.
The victor over them is defeated even after a while.
Do the best for them as much as you can. Ignore what bothers you from them, even if they show you the bitterness of injustice and abuse hence they are the ones who deserve tolerant.
Do not interrupt them and always be kind to them even by saying Hi. Praise be to God of the worlds.